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Author: Pastor Rodney
I am a United Methodist Pastor and have the privilege of serving as the Senior Pastor for the church of my childhood. I preach in a place I once was an acolyte. I love to preach, but more importantly I love to teach. I firmly believe that Faith Matters and should affect how we live. This blog is a place where I come to share the randomness that is life and faith ... and the intersection of the two.
A new adventure in a familiar place. We headed over to Wayne County to run a loop and hit the 3 key actions – Culture, Activity, and Food.
First up a stop at the Richmond Art Museum. Did you even know they had one? Did you know it’s Free! Just the right size to spend a couple hours, see some great art and artists (did you notice the TC Steele painting above?). Let’s check culture of the list.
Then we stumbled upon Whitewater Gorge Park and the bridge that Riley has now dubbed his #1 scary bridge. That’s big considering the rope bridge in Guatemala he has been on (once!). We think this was a double win … walking activity and culture … we even took in a beautiful abstract painting on a pillar.
We added a stop at the Warm Glow Candle Shop Outlet. Riley got some Bacon Salsa. This is a fun stop right off I-70 at Centerville. We also do some shopping (let’s be honest mostly looking) at lots of oddities at the Centerville Antique Market.
I’ll be honest the shopping was just a delay tactic to make it late enough to justify eating at the #9 Grill in Cambridge City. Great Steak in an old building at great price and Prime Rib doesn’t get served until after 3 pm on Fridays. When you have been there enough you know these things.
A fun day filled with stops at familiar places and we started with two new stops in Richmond. We will definitely keep this in our loop, but I am not sure we will get Riley on the bridge a second time.
Oh, and we called it a day by picking up our creations just before close from last week.
Quite honestly after some of the artwork we saw today. You might see these items in your local Art Museum some day. I think we are all pretty creative and I might add tired from a day of culture, activity, and really good food!
It’s still a bit cold out. Spring is quite here and there is still this thing called a pandemic. So today we get creative. As we search for something to do that will be safe to do indoors without engaging crowds of people.
The one thing we didn’t expect was that it would be so hard to get started. I mean with all the items to choose from … which one is the right one for each of us. After a lengthy discussion and several changes of mind … we each have something to start with … Sherry a vase … Riley a funny egg … and Me and plain egg.
Now we have to choose colors. Did I tell you there was a lot of paint colors to choose from and glazes too!
And did I mention they have stencils … Sherry found the stencils before she picked her vase!
I just wanted to paint an egg. I didn’t want to make decisions.
There is an interesting thing to creativity. It shows up differently in each person. Three people (all related) and yet we each very much have our style and personality when it comes to being creative.
Riley grabbed the paint and was off to the races. He had a plan and he would be done in a flash.
Sherry had a plan and began to paint nearly as fast. But she would have to wait as all the paint need to dry before she could add the stencil.
I methodically selected colors and began to channel my inner artist as I layered colors, but not before completely sketching out (several times) a plan on my little egg. Blending colors and adding details and colors. Each layer has a purpose.
And then we were done. Now they get fired and we will pick them up in one week. That was a really fast 2 hours. It’s amazing how time flies when you are creating. And we are all pleased with our creations.
Now we have time for lunch at a favorite place – Flamme Burger. The Food is Awesome and the Staff is always the best. We can’t wait for it be warm enough for them to open their garage door and sit and the patio. If only I could take a picture of the wonderful smell created by their wood fire cooking! Give ’em a try and tell them the Frieden’s sent you!
That’s a wrap. Culture. Check. Food. Check. Activity – well we did some walking while we stopped at several spots to shop!
What is it? Think of Family Fun Friday as a day trip or a short family outing. Sometimes it is a full day. Sometimes it is a few hours. Most importantly it is a consistently planned moment together as a family.
In general, Family Fun Friday as 3 components: Activity, Food, Culture.
1) Activity – something that requires us to get out of the house and do something that requires energy and burns calories.
That is general enough that almost anything can qualify – walking around a museum, hiking a trail, or even shopping at a mall.
2)Food – New or favorite restaurants, coffee shops, candy stores, there is always a time spent exploring something new to eat or drink.
3) Culture – Learning something new or exploring the beauty of arts and culture are important. And it is amazing what you can learn in just a few hours in a park, museum, or from a roadside sign.
When did they start?
I don’t know when the officially started, but they have certainly become a part of the rhythm of our life over the past 4 years after our son, Riley, finished high school. Riley is a part of our life, but he also has his own hobbies and things do during the week. So this gives us a chance to do something together as a family. They happen on Friday because that is my day off and it is the one day that we all try to keep free. For us Saturdays are often filled with so many other things that have to be done versus the things that we get to do on a Friday.
How did they start?
I think they started because one day there was a whole bunch of ‘chores’ that needed to be done and Riley wasn’t excited about helping. So we declared it was a Family Fun Day and we all pitched in to get the work done and when we are done we went to get Pizza (which Riley thinks is fun!). Not a very fun story, but it is the truth. And the next week, Riley asked what are going to do on Friday? And there you have it.
Do you really do this every Friday?
We try, but often Family Fun Friday still becomes a day of things that need to get done. But even on those days, we try to eat out (or order in).
How do you decide?
Sherry would tell you part of the fun of these days is that Riley and Sherry most often don’t know what we are doing. And truth is often times, I don’t either. Okay, I have a few ideas, but often it is an adventure. When you are going somewhere you have never been there is always the risk that it will be boring or NOT Fun. In those moments, you improvise, you laugh, and you remind everyone that it is Family FUN Friday!
We like close because no one wants to spend the day driving for just a few moments of fun. We also like Free, but not everything that’s worth doing is always Free. The goal here is to be together for the day. Sometimes that will mean admission fees, but not all the time.
What do you get your ideas?
It starts with a spirit of adventure. So that means you have to be willing to get out of your comfort zone. And it means going off the beaten track. The internet is a big help, but you have to dig deep. Here are few places that have helped:
Tripadvisor is great. Type in a city and you will get a list of things to do. Remember anyone is going to like the Top 10 things to do. Trying digging deep into items beyond the top 20 and that is where it gets to be FUN. Also be careful to look beyond the Big City and search the smaller towns that surround the area. Don’t just search Indianapolis. Remember Beech Grove, Broad Ripple, Greenwood, etc.
Atlasobscura is filled with the weird and unusual. You want to find Frankenstein’s Castle in Dayton, an alley in Indy that smells like Roses, a troll in a vent in Wichita this is your place. Most of these places won’t take long to visit, but finding them is a FUN adventure.
Google: Simple internet searches with key words like: Fun things to do near me, New restaurants near me, unusual food near me, Festivals near me, weird things to do near me. You name it the internet can help you find it.
What to try an Adventure?
Here are some our favorites (often repeated):
Dayton – So many things to do in a day and a short drive away from Indy. We love the Air Force Musuem, The Arboretum Park, Frankenstein’s Tower, Clifton Mills, Clifton Gorge Nature Preserve, and all the unique food.
Cincy – Sculpture Garden, Jungle Jim’s, and German Food.
Martinsville – We enjoy the shops and the restaurants around the town square (including the Candy Store!) On your way check out Doctor Who North America in Camby
Wayne County – Fountain Acres Amish Store and Deli, Richmond’s Historic Miller Park, The Candle Shop and Antique Mall in Centerville, and don’t forget the Hoosier Gym in Knightstown
Indy Area – Tappers Arcade Bar, The Circle, Museums, Fountain Circle, Midland Antiques, Broad Ripple
Indy Parks – Holiday Park and Garfield Park are great for a hike and picnic (3 components in one place)
Greenfield – James Whitcomb Riley Home and Park, Riley Days Festival
Pendleton – Pendleton Falls Park … and north on 37 check out Mercantile 37 for food and shopping
Local Food Places we enjoy: Flamme Burger, Cumaco, Half Litre, Sun King Broad Ripple, Taziki’s, City Barbeque, Hubbard and Cravens Coffee Shop, and of course Starbucks