Family Fun Friday

Found this little gem while making a wrong turn – now that’s fun!

What is it? Think of Family Fun Friday as a day trip or a short family outing. Sometimes it is a full day. Sometimes it is a few hours. Most importantly it is a consistently planned moment together as a family.

In general, Family Fun Friday as 3 components: Activity, Food, Culture.

1) Activity – something that requires us to get out of the house and do something that requires energy and burns calories.

That is general enough that almost anything can qualify – walking around a museum, hiking a trail, or even shopping at a mall.

2) Food – New or favorite restaurants, coffee shops, candy stores, there is always a time spent exploring something new to eat or drink.

3) Culture – Learning something new or exploring the beauty of arts and culture are important. And it is amazing what you can learn in just a few hours in a park, museum, or from a roadside sign.

When did they start?

I don’t know when the officially started, but they have certainly become a part of the rhythm of our life over the past 4 years after our son, Riley, finished high school. Riley is a part of our life, but he also has his own hobbies and things do during the week. So this gives us a chance to do something together as a family. They happen on Friday because that is my day off and it is the one day that we all try to keep free. For us Saturdays are often filled with so many other things that have to be done versus the things that we get to do on a Friday. 

How did they start?

I think they started because one day there was a whole bunch of ‘chores’ that needed to be done and Riley wasn’t excited about helping. So we declared it was a Family Fun Day and we all pitched in to get the work done and when we are done we went to get Pizza (which Riley thinks is fun!).  Not a very fun story, but it is the truth. And the next week, Riley asked what are going to do on Friday? And there you have it.

Do you really do this every Friday?

We try, but often Family Fun Friday still becomes a day of things that need to get done. But even on those days, we try to eat out (or order in).

How do you decide?

Sherry would tell you part of the fun of these days is that Riley and Sherry most often don’t know what we are doing. And truth is often times, I don’t either. Okay, I have a few ideas, but often it is an adventure. When you are going somewhere you have never been there is always the risk that it will be boring or NOT Fun. In those moments, you improvise, you laugh, and you remind everyone that it is Family FUN Friday!

We like close because no one wants to spend the day driving for just a few moments of fun. We also like Free, but not everything that’s worth doing is always Free. The goal here is to be together for the day. Sometimes that will mean admission fees, but not all the time.

What do you get your ideas?

It starts with a spirit of adventure. So that means you have to be willing to get out of your comfort zone. And it means going off the beaten track. The internet is a big help, but you have to dig deep. Here are few places that have helped:

Tripadvisor is great. Type in a city and you will get a list of things to do. Remember anyone is going to like the Top 10 things to do. Trying digging deep into items beyond the top 20 and that is where it gets to be FUN. Also be careful to look beyond the Big City and search the smaller towns that surround the area. Don’t just search Indianapolis. Remember Beech Grove, Broad Ripple, Greenwood, etc.

Found this using Atlas Obscura … a few minutes out of the way, but a grand adventure!

Atlasobscura is filled with the weird and unusual. You want to find Frankenstein’s Castle in Dayton, an alley in Indy that smells like Roses, a troll in a vent in Wichita this is your place. Most of these places won’t take long to visit, but finding them is a FUN adventure.

Google: Simple internet searches with key words like: Fun things to do near me, New restaurants near me, unusual food near me, Festivals near me, weird things to do near me. You name it the internet can help you find it.

What to try an Adventure?

Here are some our favorites (often repeated):

Day Trips

Dayton – So many things to do in a day and a short drive away from Indy. We love the Air Force Musuem, The Arboretum Park, Frankenstein’s Tower, Clifton Mills, Clifton Gorge Nature Preserve, and all the unique food.

Cincy – Sculpture Garden, Jungle Jim’s, and German Food.

Martinsville – We enjoy the shops and the restaurants around the town square (including the Candy Store!) On your way check out Doctor Who North America in Camby

Wayne County – Fountain Acres Amish Store and Deli, Richmond’s Historic Miller Park, The Candle Shop and Antique Mall in Centerville, and don’t forget the Hoosier Gym in Knightstown

Local Fun

Indy Area – Tappers Arcade Bar, The Circle, Museums, Fountain Circle, Midland Antiques, Broad Ripple

Indy Parks – Holiday Park and Garfield Park are great for a hike and picnic (3 components in one place)      

Greenfield – James Whitcomb Riley Home and Park, Riley Days Festival

Pendleton – Pendleton Falls Park … and north on 37 check out Mercantile 37 for food and shopping

Local Food Places we enjoy: Flamme Burger, Cumaco, Half Litre, Sun King Broad Ripple, Taziki’s, City Barbeque, Hubbard and Cravens Coffee Shop, and of course Starbucks

Holiday Park is fun in any season!

Every adventure has a beginning.

Starting Plan your adventure now!


I often hear from other Christians the lament over the commercialization of Christmas.  It seems Christmas is more about the cash than it is Christ. We often even refer to this as the War on Christmas.  My problem is we act as if this is something new.  We have bought the idea that Christmas was somehow never about the money and yet I would suggest to you that it has always been about the money – from the first day.

In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. Luke 2:1

Jesus was born into a place of conflict, occupation, and oppression.  Mary and Joseph were in Bethlehem so that the occupying Roman empire would know how much to tax their subjects.  The birth of Christ in Bethlehem happened amidst a money-grab by those in power.  And you can bet the vendors in the market place were taking advantage of the influx of outsiders to make their money.

The Good News is that Jesus came to us in this unlikely and unexpected way to show us the depth of God’s love for us to show us that God is so in love with us that God would go to any length for us, even to being humbly born in a stable (because there was no room in the inn).

And the really GOOD NEWS is that Jesus still shows up in the unexpected places in our world and in our lives. Jesus still shows up in our time whenever there is struggle, strife, injustice – wherever violence threatens and seeks to destroy the innocent and the good.  Jesus even shows up in the midst of the over-commercialization of Christmas – IF you will let Him.

Jesus is born to bring hope in the midst of our despair; born to bring light in the midst of darkness. Jesus is born to give us a choice of giving over greed.

In Jesus, God entered into our reality and our lives. God knows what it is like to be human. God knows intimately what we go through. God knows what it is like to have hopes and dreams, fears and doubts, to belong and to be rejected, to succeed and fail.

I think sometimes the most unexpected place for us to think of God is in our own lives – amidst our frustrations. We somehow think that God is too distant, too busy, to break through all the gift-giving, advertisements, and business of Christmas and reach us.

But that is the point of Christmas.  It reminds us that God chooses to be with us, wherever we are.  God is with us, today, tomorrow. Always. 

Jesus is God’s love made visible. His humble birth amidst the business of the Roman Empire puts that love on full display. It is a beautiful and unexpected gift in a humble and unexpected place.

Sometimes the greatest gifts you will ever receive are the ones you least expect.  I pray that your Christmas will be filled with unexpected gifts – presents, relationships, or moments of grace.  And may they come to you in unexpected places – the mailbox, online, and at home.

May they remind you of the original unexpected gift of Christmas—Jesus—and of God’s great love for you.

Elf on the Shelf meet John Wesley

You gotta love the idea behind Elf on the Shelf.  What a great way to engage children in good behavior during December.  The children actually self-police their good behavior as an imagery stuffed elf looks on. As a adults, we even find ourselves caught up in the fanciful world; hence, the countless photos appearing everywhere of elves in the craziest of places. BUT, as adults we also find ourselves noticing are kids doing good things AND we actually take the time to speak words of kindness and thanks to our children – maybe that is more important than the elf?

When our elf (Buddy) made his first appearance in the house, our son proudly declared, “Buddy is back and watching! But that’s okay because I’ve been good.” His statement got me thinking …

Remember that famous quote by John Wesley (1703-1791) the founder of the Methodist movement?

Do all the good you can,
By all the means you can,
In all the ways you can,
In all the places you can,
At all the times you can,
To all the people you can,
As long as ever you can.

So, what if we created little John Wesley dolls and had them appear around town – at the grocery, at the bank, at the workplace, at the gym, at the mall – you know all the places we live, work, and play. And what if we told a story about how he is watching to see if we are living out our faith?

Wesley on a Shelf

Would something as little as this help us figure out that how we live our faith matters?

After all how we live our faith matters a lot more than a few presents showing up on Christmas day! or at least that’s how I interpret the story that Jesus told:

31 When the Son of Man comes in his glory with all of his angels, he will sit on his royal throne. 32 The people of all nations will be brought before him, and he will separate them, as shepherds separate their sheep from their goats.
33 He will place the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. 34 Then the king will say to those on his right, “My father has blessed you! Come and receive the kingdom that was prepared for you before the world was created. 35 When I was hungry, you gave me something to eat, and when I was thirsty, you gave me something to drink. When I was a stranger, you welcomed me, 36 and when I was naked, you gave me clothes to wear. When I was sick, you took care of me, and when I was in jail, you visited me.”
37 Then the ones who pleased the Lord will ask, “When did we give you something to eat or drink? 38 When did we welcome you as a stranger or give you clothes to wear 39 or visit you while you were sick or in jail?”
40 The king will answer, “Whenever you did it for any of my people, no matter how unimportant they seemed, you did it for me.”
41 Then the king will say to those on his left, “Get away from me! You are under God’s curse. Go into the everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels! 42 I was hungry, but you did not give me anything to eat, and I was thirsty, but you did not give me anything to drink. 43 I was a stranger, but you did not welcome me, and I was naked, but you did not give me any clothes to wear. I was sick and in jail, but you did not take care of me.”
44 Then the people will ask, “Lord, when did we fail to help you when you were hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in jail?”
45 The king will say to them, “Whenever you failed to help any of my people, no matter how unimportant they seemed, you failed to do it for me.”46 Then Jesus said, “Those people will be punished forever. But the ones who pleased God will have eternal life.” 
Matthew 25:31-46 CEV